Hometowns & Heartbreak: “Mary’s Song” Meaning
Mary’s Song (Oh My, My, My) has gotten a lot of attention lately, and this song on Taylor Swift’s debut album deserves it: it’s a sweet little song.
Is Mary’s Song Taylor Swift prophesying her future? It’s interesting to look at with some very significant numbers in the lyrics.
Let’s look at the Mary’s Song lyrics and see what we can decode.
Mary’s Song Lyrics: Quick Analysis
- “Mary’s Song (Oh my, my, my)”
- Track 10: Taylor Swift, debut album (2006)
- Written By: Taylor Swift, Liz Rose, Brian Maher
- Pen: Fountain
- Lyrics From Genius
Mary’s Song Meaning: Narrative Analysis
- Setting: Hometown, childhood homes.
- Characters: Narrator (Mary), love interest (subject).
- Mood: Nostalgic, romantic.
- Conflict: Growing up without growing apart.
- Quest: Prove everyone wrong and make it.
- Inciting Incident: Nothing specific; childhood memories.
- Symbols & Metaphors: stars, eye rolls, city blocks, small town America, trucks.
- Theme: Growing up and growing old in love.
- Lesson: Sometimes love does last!
Mary’s Song Music Video
What was the Secret Message in Mary’s Song?
The secret message in this lovely track was “Sometimes, love is forever.”
What is Mary’s Song About?
Taylor has said that this song was inspired by her nextdoor neighbors, an old couple who had been together forever (hence the title).
Overall, the song tells a story of two individuals whose relationship evolves from childhood friendship to lifelong love. It is a celebration of enduring affection, shared history, and the journey of growing up and growing old together.
It’s the first time we see Taylor introduce the major themes of childhood and innocence, which will echo throughout her discography from here on out.
It’s also a prime example of her narrative storytelling, in which she creates an narrative arc in only the lines of a song.
Mary’s Song Meaning: Line by Line
The narrative starts in 3rd person: Taylor is telling us the story of two kids, growing up together.
It starts with “she said,” which is from the perspective of an outsider telling the story of this young couple from the future.
Then the perspective shifts to first person: “I looked at you like the stars that shined.” Taylor jumps in and places herself in the first person narrative.
This young girl looks at the young boy as something special (represented by stars). But the “stars that shined in the sky” also gives us the setting.
“The pretty lights” describe both the stars in the sky, as well as the light of love and affection between them.
Their fathers joke about the two of them getting together when they’re older, but it’s a far off fantasy, reflected in “Oh, my, my, my.” This is the mothers essentially telling the fathers to knock it off – they’re just kids.
Chorus: “When Our World Was One Block Wide:
The chorus sees the narrator asking her audience to take her back to her memories; back to simpler times when they were children.
“You said you’d beat me up, you were bigger than me” describes the childhood roughhousing of this age, “but you never did.”
What does this little anecdote tell us? It’s the childhood trope of ‘he only picks on you because he likes you.’ But his not “beating her up” is also his sign of affection.
“Take me back when our world was one block wide” evokes a strong sense of nostalgia. She wants to go back to the simpler times, when they didn’t know so much about the world.
“I dared you to kiss me,” she says, “and ran when you tried.” This reminds me of “when you’re young you just run,” from This Love.
They were “just two kids, you and I” foreshadows what’s to come.
Verse 2: “Suddenly I Wasn’t That Little Girl You Used to See”
The second verse fast forwards in time. “Suddenly,” she says, “I wasn’t that little girl you use to see.”
She matured both physically and in his eyes – he now sees her for what she is to him, and that’s a love interest.
“But your eyes still shined like pretty lights” recalls the “pretty lights” from the first verse. In the first verse, they were stars, but also the spark between them. Here his eyes reflect that nostalgia.
This time, their fathers don’t really believe it will actually happen. But the mothers again “roll their eyes,” and this time it’s more of a worried roll than shrugging it off.
“Oh, my, my, my” in this case means ‘this is trouble’ – it could actually happen, and they could be headed for heartbreak.
2nd Chorus: “Slammin’ of Doors ‘Stead of Kissing Goodnight”
The second chorus jumps ahead in time again. By this point, they’ve kindled their romance. They continue making memories together.
“2am riding in your truck” is brings in two important Taylor metaphors. “2am” symbolizes a time of deep reflection and romance (later used in I Wish You Would, Breathe, and others), while trucks and driving represent young love.
But all is not rosy – they’re a young couple, and they have their “very first fight, the slammin’ of doors ‘stead of kissing goodnight.”
This both represents the tumult of young love and the metaphorical closing doors. The door to their innocence and youth is closing.
But he doesn’t leave. He stays outside all night long, waiting for her. This is important in Taylor lore – she often represents leaving as the worst thing someone can do (think songs like All You Had to Do Was Stay). This character sticks around, and it’s representative of true, lasting love.
3rd Chorus: “You Looked at Me, Got Down on One Knee”
The third chorus fast forwards the narrative once again. This time, they’re a bit older, and they’re “in town.” This is important in the Taylorverse, where big towns and cities represent “making it” and success. They’re about to succeed.
He proposes, and they get married.
What do the mothers do this time? They cry instead of rolling their eyes.
Then the narrative switches to future tense: “we’ll rock our babies on that very front porch.” They’ll live in their hometown and raise children; a real hometown love story success.
Outro: “I’ll Be 87, You’ll Be 89”
The outro is what many Swifties point to as prophesying her romance with Travis Kelce.
“I’ll be eighty-seven, you’ll be eighty-nine,” the narrator says, predicting their future old ages. The romance will still be there: “I’ll still look at you like the stars that shine.”
But what’s even more interesting is the significance of the two numbers together, given Taylor’s current boyfriend Travis Kelce. His football jersey number? 87. Taylor’s birth year? ’89. Some Swifties theorize that Taylor manifested this relationship, and that he’s the one.
I won’t speculate on that, but I will say this: Instead of a breakup song, this one goes all the way. It’s a love story with the realities of two personalities in it for the long haul. It’s about the enduring nature of love, which starts in childhood and continues into adulthood.
The narrative describes the evolution of this love from innocent childhood crushes to a more mature, deep-seated affection.
What I love about this song is that it’s real. It’s not “Romeo take me somewhere we can be alone’; it’s more real than that. It’s not a storybook romance, it’s a real one.
Mary’s Song Meaning Taylor Swift: Final Thoughts
This is a sweet song that showcases Taylor’s narrative storytelling. She’s told us two entire life stories in the span of a few verses and choruses.
It’s also the first on the debut album that we know was inspired by someone else’s story, proving she takes inspiration and makes it personal.
Is this what she’s really looking for, and has she found it? I think Mary’s Song is a clue that we won’t always know who or what Taylor is talking about; herself, someone else, or a combination of the two.
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